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Matthew

Who Sees You?

Matthew 23:1-12


Harry Stoliker
April 25, 2010 EBC

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Who do you want to see you? That is what this section in Mt. 23 is about. The Key Verse is V.5 "Everything they do is done for men to see." This is a scathing critique of the teachers of the law and the Pharisees. All through the gospel Jesus has been exposing the motives of people, especially the religious leaders. The Sermon on the Mount was a surgical knife that cut deep to the motives of men. 5:21 "You have heard that is was said to the people long ago, "Do not murder, and anyone who murders will be subject to judgment. "But I tell you that anyone who is angry with his brother will be subject to judgment." God sees the heart. We are always wanting people to see our outward actions or appearances. 1 Samuel 16:7 "But the Lord said to Samuel, "Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him. For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart." The teachers of the law and the Pharisees wanted to be seen by men rather than by God. They wanted to be seen as having the authority of God, but their lives told another story.

V.1-4 Hypocrites Load Heavy Burdens onto Men's Consciences

V.2 The Pharisees and teachers "sat in Moses' seat" – i.e. they taught the Torah as they sat in chairs in the Temple. Teachers normally sat down. Even Jesus did – look at Mt. 26:55. They sat in Moses' chair is a figure of speech for teaching the Torah. At least in their minds they had the authority of Moses, but it seems more ironical out of the mouth of Jesus because he is blasting their hypocrisy in this chapter.

V.3 We certainly must obey anything that is taught correctly from the Scriptures. We don't obey or follow the example of hypocrites who don't live what they preach. Hypocrisy cancels out all divine authority in false teachers. The power of correct teaching backed up by a holy life is where divine power rests.

V.4 Some think that the image of tying up the heavy loads or burdens before putting them on men's shoulders refers to the extensive debating of the meaning of the Scriptures and the "hugely extended legal code" which enslaved men rather than liberated them (France). What a contrast to what Jesus said in Matthew 11:29-30 "Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light." Hypocrites become legalists who load other people's consciences with man-made laws.

Jesus frees us from man-made laws and enables us to obey God's will with joy!

Notice that they refused to lift a finger to help move them – move who? What? I take it that it refers to help move those loaded down with the heavy loads of man-made legalism that the Pharisees put on them in the first place. They offered the burdened consciences of men no help, just more law. Jesus said come to me and I will give you rest! Rest from your sin and burdened conscience through the love and forgiveness of God, because of the Cross.

V.5-7 Everything they do is for the eyes of men!

V.5 "Everything they do is done for men to see." They craved the recognition of men. They yearned for the eyes of men to be upon them. They for wanted the praise and approval of man rather than God; they wanted applause for their piety, admiration for their religiosity, and esteem for their human accomplishments. Notice how this says that "everything" they did was for the eyes of men, all their deeds, all their rituals and religion. They were addicted to getting notice by other people.

Then he tells us 5 ways how they went about trying to get notice. (1) They made their phylacteries wide. Phylacteries were small cube-shaped cases made of leather, containing Scripture passages written on parchment, worn on the left arm and forehead. Dt. 11:18 "You shall therefore lay up these words of mine in your heart and in your soul, and you shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes." So if the Bible told them to bind the word on their heads, why is Jesus chastising them about it? The same with the tassels, they were to be a reminder to obey God as well. The issue was that they were bragging about their own spirituality, it was they were craving public recognition and respect; it was an ego-satisfaction. They wanted to be conspicuous in their religious façade.

(2) They made their tassels long, to call attention to their piety. These tassels with a blue cord were attached to the four corners of a man's garment as per Deuteronomy 22:12 "You shall make yourself tassels on the four corners of the garment with which you cover yourself." They were simply a visual aid in pursuing God Numbers 15:39 "And it shall be a tassel for you to look at and remember all the commandments of the Lord, to do them, not to follow after your own heart and your own eyes, which you are inclined to whore after." Beware of visual aids, they can become idols in themselves! They were not wrong in themselves, for in all likelihood even Jesus wore tassels on his garments in obedience to Num. 15:38-41 and Dt. 22:12.

(3) They love to sit in the places of honor at the banquets. Banquets were social opportunities to exalt themselves. The head table was their favorite place; it was visible, reserved for the honored guesses. Again, visibility and pride are the issue. They hungered to be conspicuous. (4) They loved the most important seats in the synagogue. Their selfish pride polluted worship in the synagogues. Your thoughts when you come to worship ought to be on the glory of God and not on gaining praise for yourself in any way! (5) They loved to be greeted with the title "rabbi" in the marketplace. "Rabbi" means "my great one" or "my lord." People today are still in love with titles! "Doctor – so and so" "Reverend Jones" – "Your majesty, judge Smith" – Professor Gonzolez…

Everything from dinner parties, to walking in the marketplace to polluted worship was done for the eyes of men and not the eyes of God.

V.8-10 Not So With You!

What is Jesus prohibiting here? Are we to NEVER use any titles at all? Keep in mind what Jesus is shooting at here. He is assaulting their pride and love of the praise of men. IF we get any ego gratification from human titles, we shouldn't use them. We would be much safer not to use them at all. V.8 "But you are not to be called rabbi, for you have one teacher, and you are all brothers." We are God's sons and daughters; there is a level of love and familiarity that eliminates titles that are dangerous pride magnets! That is why I am not offended at all by simply being called "H." Now, if we are trying to train our children to respect adults, we are not going to let them be quite so familiar. Mr. H works, or something other, like Mr. Stoliker.

V.11-12 tell us what it's all about: humility before the eyes of God vs. self-exaltation in the eyes of men. Mt. 23:12 "The greatest among you will be your servant. 12For whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.

Donald Whitney, in his book, Spiritual Disciplines for the Christian Life, says this in a way that will sting you at first: "Do not desire to be the principal man in the church. Be lowly. Be humble. The best man in the church is the man who is willing to be a doormat for all to wipe their boots on, the brother who does not mind what happens to him at all, so long as God is glorified."

"Whoa! I don't want to be a doormat that people walk all over and wipe their boots on!" But what if that brings God glory, would you do it? Our pride needs to be challenged! Here's how CHS put it: "When the corn is nearly ripe it bows the head and stoops lower than when it was green. When the people of God are near ripe for heaven, they grow more humble and self-denying… Paul had one foot in heaven when he called himself the chiefest of sinners and least of saints."

How would you know when you are being humble before the eyes of God? The old Puritan John Flavel gives us some concrete help by listing 10 Characteristics of a Humble man:

  1. I am amazed that the infinite, holy, all-powerful God loves me and wants to have a relationship with me.
  2. I often think about how much greater God is than I am.
  3. I understand my weaknesses, and I am willing to talk about them with others.
  4. When I serve others, my primary goals are to bless them and honor God.
  5. I enjoy leading so I can serve others as I use my gifts.
  6. I enjoy following so I can assist the leader and serve others.
  7. I do not mind serving in private ways, even if I am never recognized or thanked.
  8. I often ask others for advice.
  9. I regularly study the Bible for guidance and direction.
  10. I compare my life to the standards of God.

My last point for this morning is this: How do we ever begin to become this humble??? How do we ever begin to take our eyes off what other people think about us? I believe it all starts when we realize that Father is looking at us with his eyes of love. Nothing is so encouraging, nothing makes us want to humble ourselves and be honest rather than hypocritical than realizing that our heavenly Father looks at us with eyes of love. He sees us.

The Egyptian woman Hagar in Gen. 16 realized God was all seeing when she met the angel of the LORD in Gen. 16:13 and said "You are the God who sees me, I have now seen the One who sees me." Ps. 34:15 "The eyes of the LORD are on the righteous and his ears are attentive to their cry." 2 Chron. 16:9 "For the eyes of the Lord run to and fro throughout the whole earth, to show Himself strong on behalf of those whose heart is loyal to Him."

Matthew 6:5-6"And when you pray, do not be like the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by men. I tell you the truth, they have received their reward in full. 6But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you."

Oh, my brothers and sisters, if we would learn to live our entire lives as though the eyes of our Father are upon us, we would be holy sons and daughters, and not devious hypocrites who proudly crave that men see all they do. Whose eyes do you want to live under?

There is a Latin phrase that I want you to learn to love and use with one another. It is Coram Dei. Live Coram Dei! Say to one another, "Live Coram Dei today my brother!"

R.C. Sproul writes: "Recently a friend asked me in all earnestness the same question. He asked, "What's the big idea of the Christian life?" He was interested in the overarching, ultimate goal of the Christian life.

To answer his question, I fell back on the theologian's prerogative and gave him a Latin term. I said, "The big idea of the Christian life is coram Dei. Coram Dei captures the essence of the Christian life." This phrase literally refers to something that takes place in the presence of, or before the face of, God. To live coram Dei is to live one's entire life in the presence of God, under the authority of God, to the glory of God. (under the loving eyes of our Father)

To live in the presence of God is to understand that whatever we are doing and wherever we are doing it, we are acting under the gaze of God. God is omnipresent. There is no place so remote that we can escape His penetrating gaze. To be aware of the presence of God is also to be acutely aware of His sovereignty. The uniform experience of the saints is to recognize that if God is God, then He is indeed sovereign."

Oh, brothers and sisters, live by live by the well named Beer Lahai Roi: "the well of the Living One who sees me."

If you are a hypocrite, a man-pleaser, trying to hide from God, then God's omnipresence will haunt you and scare you, as it should. You should flee to the Cross of Jesus and be saved so that you will no longer have fear the gaze of God. But if you love God with all your heart, soul and strength, they you will find great delight and comfort in knowing that God sees all things, no one hides from God's eyes, God's eyes lovingly see all his children and protects them.

Determine today how you will live your life. Who do you want looking at you? There is plenty of property by the well Beer Lahai Roi, come and build your life there!

Let's pray.

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